Growing up, I was always misinterpreted because I’m naturally a boisterous speaker. It was frustrating, not just for me but also for the females in my house. We’ve always been loud talkers, but instead of being seen as passionate or energetic, we were often labeled as upset or, in the case of the women, rather ‘bitchy.’ But the truth is, that couldn’t be further from reality.
One thing that’s truly helped me in navigating this challenge is singing. When you sing, your voice naturally incorporates dynamics, adding melodic textures that can soften and enhance how you communicate. For me, this has been key in adjusting my speaking voice. Singing teaches you to play with the highs and lows, the soft and loud, in a way that makes your voice more inviting and less intimidating to the ears.
I always tell people to incorporate dynamics into their speech. It’s not about lowering your volume but about adding variety to how you express yourself. It’s crucial to close your words on a low, calm note, which can significantly change how your message is received. By doing so, you communicate more effectively, without leaving others feeling defensive or misunderstood. It’s a small adjustment, but one that can make a world of difference in how you’re perceived.
So, the next time you’re speaking up, think of it as a melody. Add those dynamics, and you’ll find that your voice is not only heard but also embraced.
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